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Mastering Dog Socialization and Training: Don’t Blame the Dog – Part #2

Posted on: May 31st, 2023 by Asia

Get ready to learn how, from a canine’s perspective, dog socialization and training can make all the difference in creating a happy and well-behaved furry companion.

Dog Socialization

SOCIALIZATION is crucial in helping your dog develop positive behavior towards humans and other animals.

Through proper socialization, your dog can learn to interact appropriately with its surroundings, and everyone in it, making the dog feel relaxed and confident and less prone to fear and anxiety, which can lead to aggressive behavior.

As soon as a young puppy comes home with their new family, they need to begin socializing.

This can be achieved by exposing your dog to different environments, sights, sounds, and situations, including different people, animals, and places, in a controlled and positive manner.

If you wait until a dog is older, before they are introduced to all the normal day-to-day activities in our human world, chances are high that you are going to have to deal with a dog that has behavioral issues.

Get out there and take that puppy everywhere you can think of before they get older and may become nervous or fearful rather than calmly following your lead in every situation.

They need you to teach them that the horse-drawn carriage, the ducks at the petting zoo, or the airplane landing at the airport is all part of a normal day.

Here are Five Quick Dog Socialization Tips to Remember:

Start socializing your puppy early by exposing them to different environments, people, animals, and situations in a controlled and positive manner.
Gradually introduce your dog to new experiences and stimuli to build their confidence and reduce fear or anxiety.
Encourage positive interactions with humans and other animals to foster good behavior and appropriate social skills.
Provide regular opportunities for your dog to meet and interact with a variety of dogs to promote socialization and prevent behavioral issues.
Use positive reinforcement and rewards to reinforce desired behavior during socialization, making the learning process enjoyable for your dog.

Dog Training

TRAINING is another essential aspect of responsible dog ownership that will definitely improve canine behavior and strengthen the bond of trust and respect between you and your furry friend.

By consistently rewarding positive behavior and addressing negative behavior, you can easily teach your dog the three most important basic obedience commands (Come, Sit, Stay) because once learned, these commands will keep them safe in almost every situation.

Then it’s up to you how many more commands or fun tricks you might like to teach.

Training can also help your dog develop impulse control, which is essential in preventing destructive or unexpected and sudden aggressive behavior.

It is essential to remember that training should be a positive and rewarding experience for your dog, that always avoids harsh punishments.

Dogs love to learn and when you use positive reinforcement techniques, the learning will be fun for everyone.

By investing the much-needed time and effort into proper socialization and training, you can ensure that your dog becomes a well-behaved companion that will live a stress-free life as a happy member of their human family.

In conclusion, socialization and training are crucial in fostering positive behavior in dogs.

By exposing your dog to different environments and situations and consistently rewarding positive behavior, you can help your furry friend develop the necessary socialization skills they need to interact appropriately with their surroundings.

Training, on the other hand, is essential for strengthening the bond of trust and respect between you and your dog.

However, dog socialization and training are not the only crucial aspects of responsible canine ownership.

The next blog post will discuss the role of exercise in creating a happy and healthy dog.

If you missed our first “Unraveling Mysterious Canine Behavior: Don’t Blame the Dog – Part #1” article click on the link below. Enjoy!

Unraveling Mysterious Canine Behavior: Don’t Blame the Dog – Part #1

– Asia
Dog Whispering for 40+ years
© K-9SuperHeroesDogWhispering.com Since 2008

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Asia Moore has been dog whispering for 40+ years, and along with K-9 Super Heroes Dog Whispering team members Jim and Boris the dog, offers insights about dog behaviour and psychology and their relationships with their humans! Many humans don’t realize that they could have a much happier life with their canine counterparts. You don’t have to live with the embarrassment of behavioral problems because with just a little dog whispering, everyone can live a happy, stress-free life together. ^..^

Unraveling Mysterious Canine Behavior: Don’t Blame the Dog – Part #1

Posted on: May 23rd, 2023 by Asia

Don't Blame the Dog for Bad Behavior if You Don't Take the Time to Training Them

As a dog owner, you’ve no doubt often found yourself frustrated with your furry companion’s canine behavior.

Why won’t he stop barking?

Why does she keep chewing on things she shouldn’t?

Why doesn’t he listen to me?

It’s easy to jump to conclusions and blame the dog, but what if we took a step back and tried to understand things from their perspective?

After all, our canine friends have their own unique ways of communicating and interpreting the world around them.

In this article, we’ll delve into some key concepts that can help us better understand our dogs and strengthen our relationships with them.

From rewarding positive behavior to managing stress and anxiety, we’ll explore various topics that can help us become more empathetic and effective dog owners.

So, if you’re ready to gain a deeper understanding of your four-legged friend, read on!

Communication and Canine Behavior Interpretation

If I were a dog, I’d probably say, “It’s not like we can just wag our tails and expect humans to understand us, so it’s kind of funny how they expect us to understand their every command.”

Communication is key, but it’s not always easy for us dogs to interpret what humans are saying.

Instead of all that talking that humans rely on, us dogs rely heavily on energy, body language, tone of voice, and even the scent of their emotions to understand what they want from us.

As much as we want to please our owners, we also have our own canine instincts and behavior that we sometimes find challenging to suppress.

Often humans blame us when we act out, but they don’t understand that we’re not trying to be bad, it’s just our natural response to a certain situation.

That’s why it’s important for humans to try and understand things from our 4-legged perspective, to see things through our eyes and not just blame the dog.

With that being said, rewarding positive behavior is a great way to encourage us dogs to pay attention and learn more quickly the lessons humans are trying to teach.

Rewarding Positive Behavior

You can encourage good behavior in your furry friend by using rewards and positive reinforcement.

Canine behavior can be modified through consistent training, and positive feedback is an essential part of it.

You can use verbal praise, treats, or toys to communicate to your dog that they’ve done something right.

Positive reinforcement requires patience, but it’s worth it in the long run.

Where we humans often miss out is forgetting to praise our dogs when they performed the task we asked.

We are quick to scold when our dog does something we don’t like, but often forget to tell them when they actually did what we asked of them.

When your dog understands they’ll be rewarded for good behavior, they’re more likely to repeat it.

Responsible dog ownership involves more than just feeding and sheltering your pet.

It also requires proper socializing, training, and supervision in combination with consistent persistence, repetition, and much patience, while maintaining a calm, yet assertive energy.

Training is a crucial aspect of owning a dog, and it’s essential to begin schooling your dog as early as possible.

Dog owners need to understand that, in order to thrive, every dog needs to feel that they can trust and respect their humans, and this requires consistent guidance and boundaries.

This is why the importance of supervision in dog ownership can’t be overstated.

As the owner, it’s your responsibility to ensure that your pet behaves appropriately and that they’re not a danger to themselves or others.

In Part #2 of the “Don’t Blame the Dog” series, we discuss the importance of socialization and training in more detail.

Go check it out…“Mastering Dog Socialization and Training: Don’t Blame the Dog – Part #2“.

– Asia
Dog Whispering for 40+ years
© K-9SuperHeroesDogWhispering.com Since 2008

Asia

Is Walking Your Dog a Real Drag?

Posted on: January 29th, 2013 by Asia

Do you enjoy walking your dog, or does this picture remind you of how taking your dog out for a walk has literally become a painful drag because your dog is pulling your arm out of its socket?

Don’t worry, because the above picture is more common than you might imagine as easily 90% or more of all dogs (from Chihuahuas to Great Danes) are not enjoying their walk, either, and many humans with larger breeds avoid the activity altogether because it’s just too embarrassing or too painful.

Walking the dog sounds simple enough – everyone knows how to do that, or do they really?

Most humans think that they just put a collar on the dog, snap on a leash, and away they go for a wonderfully relaxing walk, when in fact, many humans and their dogs are suffering every time they go out the door.

Unfortunately, whether you’re walking a small dog, or a large dog, or walking many different dogs at a boarding kennel, pet care service, or your local SPCA, not mastering the walk is painful, and it can and does lead to many other behavioral issues that can endanger you, those around you and the life of your canine companion.

Why is Walking Your Dog So Important?

It’s important that you are walking your dog correctly because this is the time when you will have an opportunity to bond and help your dog to realize that you are the leader and they are the follower.

An uncomfortable, unproductive and/or out-of-control walk with your best friend very often leads down the sad and lonely road to the local shelter because the human element can’t handle it anymore and feels forced into making the difficult decision to put their canine companion up for adoption.

Mastering the walk with your dog is the number one, most important primal activity that you will do with your canine friend, therefore getting it right is paramount.

Mastering the walk helps to create that all-important respect, build on trust and fulfill your dog’s needs in such a way as to create a deep, lasting bond, easy communication, and a happy, relaxed relationship between you and your best friend where there’s never any question about who is the boss.

Dog Out Front Creates Many Problems

When you allow your dog to take the lead, you are “telling” him or her that they are the leader, instead of you. This can be very confusing for your dog, especially if you expect them to listen to you at other times and in other circumstances.

When the dog is out front you are putting a great deal of stress onto the shoulders of your fur friend, which means that you are ultimately helping to shorten their lives, because stress doesn’t just shorten human lives.

When you are not walking your dog, and instead permit your dog to walk you, you are putting your dog in the position of having to make humans decisions about what to do whenever you meet another dog or person, or encounter unknown circumstances, which means that you’re asking them to do your job for you.

As smart as your dog probably is and as much as they really want to please you, asking them to think, act and respond as a human is simply unrealistic.

If your dog is taking the lead by walking in front of you when you go out for your walk, and straining and pulling you on the leash, you both can benefit greatly from a little dog psychology so that you can learn what you need to do to correct this situation and instead work toward creating that special bond that all dog lovers seek to have with their best friend.

You Can Easily Fix The Problem

The good news is that even if your dog has been taking the lead and walking you for years, after just a few minutes of learning dog whispering techniques, you will soon understand how to easily become the master at walking your dog and Fido or Fifi will love you all the more for it.

A dog is not just for Christmas – a dog is for a lifetime. Walking your dog is the most important time you will spend with your fur friend, so why not make the all-too-short lifetime you have with your canine companion a pleasant, loving experience for both of you?

Call K-9 Super Heroes Dog Whispering today and we’ll help you learn, among other things, how to walk your dog properly, because if you’re not being the pack leader in all circumstances, you’re sending confusing messages to your dog, who then has to figure out when the leadership role has defaulted to them.

Never forget that if you force your dog into the role of leadership and they make the wrong choice, it’s not their fault because they’re a dog with limited brain power and zero reasoning skills, therefore, it’s you who will literally pay the price of your dog having made an incorrect decision about how to deal with what may be coming along down the road.

Walking your dog should be a pleasurable experience, so keep yourself and your dog safe at all times by learning how to keep them walking comfortably at your side so that you can both look forward to your daily walks together.

– Asia – Dog Whispering for 40+ years
© K-9SuperHeroesDogWhispering.com [Since 2008]

Asia

The Flexi-Leash Fiasco

Posted on: January 29th, 2013 by Asia

Many people are huge advocates of the cumbersome flexi, retractable, extendable, or cord leash concept and have happily laid out anywhere from $15. to $50. or more, depending on the size they required, to purchase one of these dog walking devices for their favourite canine counterpart, and why not, after all, they seem to be just the thing for a great walk, or are they?

What the flexi-leash offers is (on average) a free range of 16 to 26 feet for the fur friend so that they can get plenty of exercise sniffing about and exploring while remaining safely attached to their human. Isn’t this great – or is it?

Unfortunately, while many people have been lulled into believing that they are doing a great service to their dog by purchasing one of these leads, exactly the opposite is actually true.

How can this be, you ask because this leash comes highly recommended at so many pet stores and all my friends use one.

While it’s certainly true that the flexi-leash can be purchased at just about every pet store outlet known to man and dog, and yes, they appear to be enormously popular because you see a lot of them around, the fact remains that the use of these devices are causing far more harm than the perceived good they offer to the dog at the other end.

Teaches Bad Manners

For starters, a well-behaved dog must be a follower, which means that at no time during the walk should your dog be romping 20 feet ahead of you, or lagging 20 feet behind you.

The walk is the time when your dog needs to be concentrating on following its leader and this is impossible with a flexi-leash arrangement.

Teaches Your Dog Not to Listen

Secondly, every dog must be safe and listen to its leader (you) so that they don’t find themselves suddenly in trouble, and this just can’t happen when the dog is so far away.

When you allow your dog to reel out on the flexi-leash, he or she is no longer paying attention to the leader, but instead may be so totally engrossed in smells, sights, and sounds that they might even forget you’re there at all.

Dogs can move at a speed much faster than the average human has adequate time to react.

I’ve seen it happen many times when a dog who is 20 feet or more in front of its owner is suddenly startled by another dog, becomes nervous or afraid and before you’re able to reel them back, a fight has already broken out.

Hazardous to Humans

Thirdly, the flexi-leash is a hazard to humans, both small and tall because often they are not seen and because of this they create dangerous tripping hazards, and if you’ve ever been wearing shorts and run into a flexi-leash, you will know the pain of that nasty rope burn.

I know someone whose daughter was tripped by the flexi-leash, fell down the stairs, and broke her toe and this is mild compared to other more serious accidents that have been caused by these devices.

Teaches Pulling

Fourthly, putting a flexi-leash on your dog encourages the dog to pull and be in charge of the walk, which is both painful for the human as well as potentially dangerous if your dog feels that it needs to protect the follower and decides to attack another dog, person or animal.

Dangerous for Dogs

Fifthly, there are many sights and sounds outside, and when your dog is so far away you might be distracted and not notice quickly enough that he or she has just spied a squirrel crossing the road and chased it out into traffic until it’s too late and your beloved best friend has just been struck by a vehicle.

False Sense of Security

Sixthly, the flexi-leash provides the human with a false sense of security that can quickly create an embarrassing situation as simply being attached to their dog becomes a substitute for not paying attention to what their dog is doing.

If you’re not watching, you can be certain that most dogs will be engaging in self-rewarding behavior which can then lead to the dog teaching itself to act inappropriately in most public situations.

Leash Laws

Seventh, we have leash laws that require that we have our dogs under control, which is just not possible when the dog is already 20 feet or more in front of you.

Difficult to Hold Onto

And finally, my eighth peeve is the actual handle of the flexi-leash which is not only cumbersome to hold, but can also become a weapon in itself that has the potential to cause much harm and pain.

For instance, I was sitting on a grassy hill with my dog one summer afternoon when a couple of children came by with their little dog who was attached to a flexi-leash.

They accidentally dropped the handle which snapped back while the dog ran and I received the full weight of the handle against the side of my head.

Thank goodness it wasn’t my eye and I only had a headache for the rest of the day.

So let’s recap in bullet form what we’ve learned about the potential hazards of the flexi-leash.

it places your dog in the wrong walking position
it teaches your dog to pull and be in charge on the walk
it teaches your dog not to listen to you
it places your dog in danger of approaching dogs
it places your dog in danger of traffic
it’s a tripping hazard to humans
it provides a false sense of security
it doesn’t fully comply with leash laws
the handle is cumbersome and can be a weapon

Bottom line, if you truly care about the safety of yourself, your dog, and those around you, dump the flexi-leash and get yourself a simple 4 or 6-foot leash that fits comfortably in your hand, keep your dog beside you when walking, and avoid all the potentially flexible problems.

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Asia

What is Dog Whispering?

Posted on: January 25th, 2013 by Asia

First of all, let’s get straight about what “Dog Whispering” is NOT because some people seem to have the amusing idea that the term “dog whispering” refers to some sort of hocus-pocus, California crazy, psychic connection where the person doing the “whispering” has the eerie ability to read the dog’s thoughts and convey these to the owner, like some sort of psychic medium talking to the recently departed. Rest assured, this is NOT what “dog whispering” is all about.

Teaching Humans to Speak Dog

While a good “dog whisperer” indeed does have the ability to “read” the dog, this is not accomplished through any sort of dog/human mind meld, but rather through a combination of keen observation of body language and understanding of how this relates to the dog’s genetic behavior in the dog’s world of Mother Nature.

There are no bad dogs, just misunderstood ones trying to communicate with their humans. A large part of dog whispering, or dog training, is actually teaching humans to speak dog.

“Dog Whispering” can be difficult to define because it’s a combination of intuition born out of having spent many years observing dogs and their social behavior in their natural environment and then interacting with them at their instinctual level of understanding through the use of energy and body language, just as dogs would do amongst themselves running as a pack in the wild.

“Dog Whispering” is specific and very effective because it plays on the natural instincts and communication tools that a dog already knows and understands. Rather than reacting negatively to your dog’s perceived bad behavior, a “dog whisperer” can teach you how to lead your dog to the positive, good behavior you desire.

What Can a Good Dog Whisperer Do For You?

For instance, a good “dog whisperer” can recognize where the miscommunication between a dog and owner is causing a particular problem and then create a plan specifically designed to help eliminate the problems in each individual case.

Although “dog whispering” is a relatively new term for dog owners with respect to teaching their dogs to behave properly, in fact, it has been around for a long time, the term first coming to the forefront through “horse whispering”.

Effective Communication

The ability to effectively communicate with your dog can help to make any type of training not only easier but also much more effective.

In fact, there is little doubt that you can gain more control over your dog by utilizing this type of method and then integrating these techniques into your daily routines.

When you can communicate with your dog in a way that your dog actually understands, anything is possible.

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Disney Expectations

Unfortunately for many of the canines in our lives, as humans, we were raised on a daily diet of Disney cartoons in which animals have the same thoughts, ideas, feelings, expressions, and understanding as humans – when in reality, you and your dog are not living in a Disney cartoon and dogs don’t understand human language.

Therefore, although dogs can certainly learn to understand the sound of some words when humans persist in endlessly chattering with their dogs, the conversation is for the benefit of the human, because dogs communicate through energy and body language, not speech.

Rather than shouting confusing human words and commands to a dog and forcing it to somehow understand what you want of it, dog whispering is a much more natural approach to training or eliminating unwanted behaviors because it connects directly with the dog through body language and positive associations, at the canine level of understanding.

Dogs Are Not Humans

What many humans fail to understand when bringing a dog into their life is that dogs are a totally different species, not four-legged humans and that dog brains are NOT simply smaller versions of the human brain, complete with the myriad of human emotions, with the same capabilities to think, rationalize and solve problems.

Thankfully, for us humans, dogs are extremely agreeable to living within our alien human world.

When humans are capable of being truly honest with themselves, often when a dog is brought into a human family, this is for the fulfillment of a human need and although humans are indeed well-meaning and most often loving toward their canine family member because humans think like humans, there can be little understanding or consideration of what the human should provide (beyond food and shelter) in order to fulfill the dog’s needs.

From the human point of view, most behavioral issues that seem to surface out of nowhere are directly caused by the human failure to understand what the dog is “telling” them or consider what the dog’s needs really are.

Communication Breakdown

Once there’s a communication break-down between you and your dog, frustration and the command style of shouting orders don’t really work because when you get angry or frustrated your dog continues to be confused and may end up simply doing what you say (maybe) as a way of avoiding some sort of negative punishment which can then lead your dog to both disrespect, mistrust and even fear you, all which are very unstable legs upon which to build a solid relationship.

The reason “Dog Whispering” techniques are usually more effective than many traditional training methods is that it’s much more natural to communicate with the dog through energy and body language, at the instinctual level, which they already understand because this is forming a basis of mutual understanding and respect through a simple connection with the natural way a dog thinks and feels.

Humans who may have tried a variety of “training” techniques yet were unable to achieve the desired results and decide to give “dog whispering” a try, are often so amazed at the positive and rapid transformation that occurs in a very short period of time, that “dog whispering” done properly can seem like magic.

The bottom line is that we humans, more often than not, seem to forget that dogs are very good at being dogs, and unfortunately for them, are not very good at becoming humans.

Therefore, dogs only become unbalanced and stressed out when they are brought into a human family and expected to look like dogs but behave like humans without any regard for what they really require in order to be happy dogs.

A good “Dog Whisperer” knows that working WITH Mother Nature, instead of against it, by teaching humans how to speak dog, which will restore balance to their best friend, can have far-reaching, positive results because restoring balance at the instinctual level of the dog world usually also results in restoring balance and harmony to the entire family and the surrounding neighbourhood, too.

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Just Love is Not Enough

Possessing a lot of love and affection for dogs alone will not make you a “dog whisperer” because the love of dogs is just one part of a complicated combination of skills necessary to be a good “dog whisperer”.

There is no special course or training you can take in order to become a “Dog Whisperer” because if you don’t have the right kind of energy and a strong, instinctual connection with the canine world, no amount of training will help you.

Some of the traits necessary for the makeup of a good “Dog Whisperer” include being a natural-born leader and problem solver with highly honed skills of observation.

Also very necessary is a love of dogs, no fear of dogs, an understanding of dogs at their instinctual level, calm, assertive energy, exemplary teaching skills, unflappable confidence, patience, and persistence, plus an unshakeable belief that there are no bad dogs, but rather only misinformed humans.

Couple all this with a strong desire to help relieve dogs under stress while creating a closer canine/human bond, a belief that there is always a solution that will help alleviate unbalanced situations and an inventive mind to find the solution while creating a comfortable situation for counseling humans and encouraging them to get in touch with their own truths, and you will have developed a solid framework for becoming a good “dog whisperer”.

It takes time, usually many years, to evolve into becoming an effective “Dog Whisperer” because it’s equivalent to learning an alien language. However, the rewards are very much worth it when you see the amazing results that can be achieved when you help another dog and its humans return to a naturally balanced way of being.

Who doesn’t want a much happier dog, a stress-free home, a peaceful neighborhood, and a greater understanding that will create a strong, loving bond between two very different species?

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